Kids and Money: Wants vs. Needs (2025)

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(FE1969, July 2020)

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Kids and Money: Wants vs. Needs

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Part of a financial newsletter for kids and parents, this issue explores the difference between wants and needs.

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Revised under the direction of Carrie Johnson, Extension Personal and Family Finance Specialist

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Julia Fabijanic, Extension Intern (Undergraduate Student, Human Development and Family Science) Candace Kornelsen, Graduate Extension Assistant (Graduate Student, M.ed. in Counseling)

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Kids and Money: Wants vs. Needs (2)

Kids and Money: Wants vs. Needs (3)

A newsletter for young people

WANT$ vs. NEED$

Knowing what to do with money is an important part of life. Your parents and the other adults around you influence your feelings about money. People spend money on many different things.

Where do you spend money? What you spend money on depends on your values. Values are feelings about what is important to you. They help you decide on your goals. Goals are things you want to achieve. Setting goals can help you get things you want to buy.

Values and goals change as you get older. When you were younger, your goal may have been to buy a new pair of jeans. Today, your goal may be to have a certain brand of jeans.

Setting goals is a way of making plans for your future. To reach your goals, you first must decide what you will need and want.

What is the difference between a need and a want? A want is something you would like to have, such as a bike, a new camera or a new Xbox game. A need is something that is necessary, such as food, clothing or shelter.

Sometimes wants do become needs. If you live out of town and play on a sports team, a bicycle could be a need. A pair of good basketball shoes for those participating in basketball games also could become a need.

To be good money managers, you must meet your needs before your wants. What would happen to you if your parents didn’t buy bread and milk, only candy bars and soda?

List three needs:

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2.

3.

Why are they needs?

List three wants:

1.

2.

3.

Why are they wants?

Kids and Money: Wants vs. Needs (4)

Kids and Money: Wants vs. Needs (5)

A newsletter for parents

WANT$ vs. NEED$

In our society, money is earned and exchanged for the majority of goods and services we need and want. Money decisions make a big difference in our lives.

Children are not born with money sense. Money management skills must be learned. Whether you realize it or not, what children see and hear at home highly influences their attitudes and values about money. The way parents insure themselves, discuss money, spend, borrow, save, share and invest will affect a child’s value system concerning money.

Preteens begin to realize that money itself has no value, but it is needed to buy things they want. Fifth-graders are collectors. They want to save for specific things, usually one thing at a time. With continued practice, your fifth-grader will be able to save for bigger goals in the near future.

But how do you nurture that process at home?
Be a good role model.

Effective money management is based on a realistic evaluation of individual and family needs, wants, values, goals and resources.

A need is something that is necessary, such as food, clothing or shelter. A want is something you would like to have, such as a new phone, video game or bike.

Do you catch yourself saying, “But I need that new phone”? Do you need or want it? To be effective money managers, you must meet your needs before satisfying your wants.

Go through the activity on the front page with your child. Keep these points in mind:

  • Guide and supervise rather than dictate
  • Praise positive points
  • Help your child learn through mistakes as well as successes
  • Be consistent
  • Be flexible and realistic
  • Be patient
  • Respect the child’s individuality

Kids and Money: Wants vs. Needs (6)

Kids and Money: Wants vs. Needs (7)

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Kids and Money: Wants vs. Needs (2025)

FAQs

Kids and Money: Wants vs. Needs? ›

A want is something you would like to have, such as a bike, a new camera or a new Xbox game. A need is something that is necessary, such as food, clothing or shelter. Sometimes wants do become needs. If you live out of town and play on a sports team, a bicycle could be a need.

What is the difference between a need and a want for kids? ›

Needs are things that people require to survive. Food, water, clothing, and shelter are all needs. If a human body does not have those things, the body cannot function and will die. Wants are things that a person would like to have but are not needed for survival.

What is the difference between money need and want? ›

Fixed expenses like rent or mortgage payments fall under needs, while variable expenses like dining out or shopping fall under wants. Allocate your income accordingly, ensuring that essential needs are prioritized before discretionary wants.

What are examples of needs and wants for kids? ›

“Needs” are necessities that you cannot live without. Without what we need, such as food and water, our lives or health may be compromised. “Wants” are non-essential items. Without them, your life won't be materially affected, though you may be upset for a while.

Does pocket money teach children to be good at differentiating between needs and wants? ›

In time, your child should begin to understand what they're asking for in the context of the household income, but this is also why earning money, or giving your child pocket money if you can afford it, can help. Having ownership of their own money means they can start to make their own decisions.

What are 5 examples of needs and wants? ›

Needs include food, housing, healthcare, and transportation—in other words, anything you really can't do without and maintain your health and security. Wants include items like entertainment, travel, designer clothing, and so on. If you can trim it from your budget, it's probably a want vs. a need.

What are the 10 examples of wants? ›

Examples of wants that people would like to have is financial monitoring, saving time, higher paying job, more comfort, healthier diet, physical fitness, spirituality, friendship, companionship and safety.

What is the 40/30/20 rule? ›

The most common way to use the 40-30-20-10 rule is to assign 40% of your income — after taxes — to necessities such as food and housing, 30% to discretionary spending, 20% to savings or paying off debt and 10% to charitable giving or meeting financial goals.

Is a phone bill a want or a need? ›

You'll want to place insurance and a basic phone plan under needs, but a subscription to a streaming service or a premium cable package will more than likely fall under wants. The next step is to tally up what you're spending in each category and see how the totals compare to your monthly take-home income.

What is the 50/30/20 rule? ›

Key Takeaways. The 50-30-20 budget rule states that you should spend up to 50% of your after-tax income on needs and obligations that you must have or must do. The remaining half should dedicate 20% to savings, leaving 30% to be spent on things you want but don't necessarily need.

What are the 5 basic wants of a child? ›

Kids must feel safe and sound, with their basic survival needs met: shelter, food, clothing, medical care and protection from harm.

How do you teach kids about wants and needs? ›

Take them grocery shopping — A grocery store is a great place to show kids the difference between needs and wants. Go through your list with them and as you fulfill each item, ask your child if it's a need or a want. Then explain whether they're right or wrong and why it classifies as one versus the other.

How do you explain needs to a child? ›

Explaining needs and wants simply to kids

The best way to explain this is to tell them they have everything they need, but if they want this item so badly, they need to save and work for it using their allowance and money they've earned from chores.

Is money a need or a want? ›

Whether you're saving for emergencies, paying off debt, or building retirement savings, all financial goals can be considered needs. Achieving your Money Milestone is essential to staying financially fit and takes precedence over your wants throughout your journey to Financial Freedom.

What are some needs vs wants? ›

A need is something that is necessary to live and function. A want is something that can improve your quality of life. Using these criteria, a need includes food, clothing, shelter and medical care, while wants include everything else.

Why is it important to differentiate between your wants and needs before you spend money? ›

Wants include spending that isn't necessary for daily life, while needs are essential for your survival. Understanding the difference between the two is important for building a budget and maintaining your financial health.

What is the main difference between a need and a want? ›

A need is something that is needed to survive. A want is something that an individual desires, but would be able to live without. A primary distinguishing feature of a need is that it is necessary to sustain life. Yes, there is an overlap of products being used for needs and wants.

How do you teach the difference between wants and needs? ›

Ask the students to raise their hand and give you the definition of a want or a need. Explain to them that: A need is something that you cannot live without, i.e. water, food, or fuel for warmth. A want is something that is a luxury.

What is a need vs want for youth? ›

A need is something that is necessary, such as food, clothing or shelter. A want is something you would like to have, such as a new phone, video game or bike.

What is a need vs wants grade 6? ›

Need: Something that is required to live (food, water, shelter, clothing) Want: Something we would like to have (bike, iPad, candy etc.)

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